6 Reasons Why She is Ignoring You (Solution Outlined)

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Is she ignoring you? Find the reasons why she does that and an appropriate way how to fix that is outlined in this article. Stick with me throughout.

You may be asking yourself why she keeps on ignoring you no matter how hard you try to get her attention. I did some research and here is what is found out.


We all know that a girl can’t just ignore you for no reason. There must be something that you did to make her ignore you that is why she is snubbing you. So, let dig deep and find out some of the reasons why she is ignoring you.



Why is she ignoring me all of a sudden?

I’ll outline some of the things that can make a girl ignore you all of a sudden. A girl can ignore because of the following reasons.


·         A girl will ignore you when you have done something to upset her; you definitely don’t want to mess up with a girl. Girls are so sensitive. The bad thing is that when you mess up with her she might not react on the spot.


You may convince yourself that she is cool with everything you did. You will not know that until she decides to completely ignore you. You might go to her and ask her what’s going on.



Some girls will play it cool. She will tell you that she is fine. This is the first thing that you as a man you shouldn’t accept. She can’t tell you that she is fine and you walk away from her.


That is not what a gentleman should do. You should be able to know when something is wrong with your girlfriend. You are supposed to be the first person who should know if there is something wrong with your lover.


When you upset her and you leave everything in a messy situation without solving the issues, then later don’t expect for her to behave the way she used to behave before you. She will probably ignore you.


·         She will ignore you when you do things that she isn’t interested in; this is something that almost every girl has. Girls are way good at hiding their feelings, especially with negativity.

When a girl knows that if she reveals the truth to you about the things you do, she clearly knows that she will hurt you. So, instead of her hurting your feelings, she will just decide to ignore you.



She will leave you hanging. It will be up to you to think of what’s wrong between you and her. Those girls who are mostly caring will never tell you directly that your activities with her are boring. She will choose to ignore it to stop that from happening.



If you keep on following her and insisting to know why she pays no attention to you that is the point when you will hear everything that you weren’t supposed to hear from her.



You have to know that a girl will not snub you if you have things that she is interested in. A piece of good advice to my fellow dudes. If you find that you do everything you can to get her attention and she still doesn’t respond, just walk away gently.


·         A girl will ignore you if she has found someone better than you; this is probably something you should have known by now. When you are not in her options maybe she got someone else who is way cooler than you are.



She may be hiding that inside her heart, but that is another one of the reasons why she may pay no heed to you. The truth is that maybe she is afraid to hurt you. That is why she is keeping that information to herself.


In another case, she might not know how to present that information to you. It’s complex and complicated. Imagine the way you two used to get along with each other so well without any issues. It will be very hard to share that with you.


If she won’t share with you about her having found someone else better than you are, then her only option will be to ignore you. It hurts but that is the truth. You have to understand that you are not the only one she sees in this world.



Girl’s interest sometimes changes over petty issues. As a man, you should appreciate that fact and move on with your life. You may not be the only one going through such a phase in your life.


·         A girl will ignore if she finds out that you are not who you say you are; this goes to those boys who pretend to be someone they are not before a girl. All this is because of impressing her. Dude! You don’t need that to win a girl.


Let her love you for who you are. It’s very important to be real in everything that you do before a girl. Let her see the real you. If she makes a decision to love you or to let you walk let it all be natural.


It’s true that not every girl or woman will love you for who you are. Everyone has their own features that they look at a person they want to interact with. You shouldn’t be in denial. That is something universal.



There is no need to force that by pretending to be someone you are not. If she finds it by any means she will never talk to you again. Girls hate pretenders and liars. So don’t get surprised if this is one of the reasons why she may be ignoring you currently.



I usually find it so difficult and confusing. I mean how can someone have two identities? If you know how to do that, kindly teach me because I completely failed on that.


·         A girl will ignore you when she finds out that you are the type of person she wants; I know you have heard this term from girls. “He is not my type”


The truth is that you can’t force her to pay attention to you when she has already told you this term. It’s the most hurtful term a man can hear from a girl that he had a crush on. It’s way better and caring when she tells you that she has someone else.



That will at At least give you a positive outlook on yourself. We have those men who have low self-esteem, this will wreck them completely. It might make someone lose focus on what matters to himself.



I have come across some people whom some of them were my friends. They got themselves in situations that they could never lift themselves from. This was all because of rejection, it’s painful. That shouldn’t be a reason for you to get lost completely.



There are so many ways of managing rejections that can help you to get over that. If she told you that you are not her type then be sure that you will be someone else’s type.


This is another reason why she may be ignoring you. Anyway, don’t worry about that. You never know what tomorrow might bring for you. You will find someone else who will pay attention to you in a way that she never did before.


·         A girl will ignore if she finds out that you can’t give her what she wants; do you think she will pay attention to you when she knows she can’t get anything she wants from you?


You have the answer already. Try to keep yourself in her shoes. You can’t get anything from the person you want to pay attention to, will you really stick around?



It will be so hard. No matter how much you will try, you will always come to the conclusion that your attention deserves someone else who can offer you what you want. This is something that most of the girls will never be open to you about.



You will see her ignoring you and pulling away from you whenever you try to reach her. This is really hard to fix. If you have a friend who feels this way or let us say your girlfriend feels this way; it will be so hard to fix that.



You don’t want to be ignored. This is so painful. She should tell you the truth than to ignore you. We all know the urge that someone develops when he wants attention badly from her girlfriend and she keeps pulling away.


The worst thing about being ignored by her is that you don’t know the stages she has placed you. You can’t know whether she is going to come back and start to pay heed to you again or she will walkway completely.



These are the only a few reasons I can share with you why she is ignoring you. Let me cover something else. Keep scrolling something hot is coming.



How do you know that she is ignoring you?

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There are several ways that can show that she is ignoring you. The first thing you can know this is by her actions, words, and the time she takes when is with you. Use this information to compare with it the previous behavior just when everything seemed alright for you and her.


These are the signs that will show you that she is avoiding you.


·         She gives you lame excuses whenever you ask her to spend time with you; this will be hard to know when she is just starting to ignore you. You may think that she is busy nowadays and that maybe she is more focused on something important.



As a man, you will understand that. You will realize that that has been a trend for her after several weeks. You will eventually figure out that she is ignoring you. You and I both know that she never used to behave like that.


This will give you a clear picture that she is pulling away. I bet you know your girlfriend better than anyone does. This kind of change should give you a quick idea that she is ignoring you.



If you go-ahead and tell her that you would like to go together with her on the matters that she is trying to attend to it, there is no way she will accept that.



 She might even tell you that is a woman’s business. Will you force her to take you if she tells you it’s a meeting that they do discuss pads?


This is a good sign to show you that she is ignoring you. It will be the first thing that will let you know she is ignoring you.



·         She will always cut off an important conversation; this is another sign that will let you know that she is ignoring you. She will cut off the conversations because she feels that you no longer matter. She thinks that you are wasting her time.



Everything important thing that you might try to share with her that matters to your relationship, she will always try to skip that topic. This is a gradual way that she is planning to distant herself from you.



Some days later you will find that she no longer cares about making any conversation with you even the silly ones. This is a clear indication that you no longer matters to her. Don’t get surprised when she unfollows you on social media or block you on WhatsApp.



This is something that you should know by now. Girls are so good at doing that. This will happen when she is completely faded up with you. Do you know why? I think I have outlined for you some of the reasons why she may be ignoring you above there.



·         The time that she used to spend with you will decline abruptly; this is another factor that will let you know that she is ignoring you.


If you used to spend 100 hours together, then those hours will decrease to 40 or 30. This is a clearer sign that will let you know that she is no longing for you.



What we all know is that you will always spend a lot of time with the people you love and care about. You will never want even to let a single day pass by without you being in contact with them.



If this changes, then there are serious issues between you and her. What I can say is that girls have a pretty good measure when it comes to time management. If a girl is into something she will always sacrifice her time for that thing.



When her interest diverts so is her time for it. That is the same way it happens when it comes to relationships. If she is no longer interested in you, she will just ignore you—by taking her time away from you.


·         She will always get angry and aggressive over petty issues that you used to do together; this will be one of the ways of her pulling away from you. Will you really need the company of someone who gets angry every second for things that aren’t worth it?



The truth is that you won’t even need her around you. You may be surprised by this sudden change. This is because what annoys her and makes her angry now are the same things she used to enjoy with you.


This is a sign that she is no longer interested in you. She wants to be away from you. She is completely aware that if she reacts in such a way you will let her walk away from you. The other hidden agenda of it is to start to ignore you.



Girls are good pretenders! If you have never known that then, it’s time for you to know the truth. She can do anything just to get ignore you. Something worst they can do; they can make you feel guilty that you did something wrong to them.



They might just come up with certain reasons why she doesn’t want to be around you. The only thing you can do about that is to let her be on her own. If you let it that way you will realize that is what she wanted.



·         She will never use friendly words on you; using polite language with someone shows that you are ready to make conversation with him or her. The more conversation gets deeper the more exciting things to get.


A girl who is trying to ignore you she will never make anything easy for you. She will be talking to you as if you are her enemy. All this is for her to avoid you.



No man will be happy to be around a lady that is throwing dirty words to him on anything positive he does to her. That is exactly what she wants. You will know she wants that because she will even not bother to come and apologize for her mistakes.



This is another sign that she wants to ignore you. Once the issue gets more on the negative side, she will never even bother to keep in touch with you. It may take days for you to hear from her again. Dude! She is ignoring you already, wake up!


·         She will start to fail to answer you text and calls; if a girl wants to ignore this is exactly what she is going to do. She will cut off every means of communication with you. That will let you figure out for yourself that she doesn’t want to talk to you.


When it reaches this stage then, knows that she is pulling away from you. The only thing remaining if you really love her is to find appropriate ways to fix that. So that brings me to my next subtopic.



What can I do if she keeps on ignoring me?


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So, you might ask yourself what next for a girl who is ignoring you. There are ways that everyone will approach this. Some will prefer to fix that issue. Other people will prefer to ignore her back as she is ignoring him.



Ignoring her back isn’t a good measure that I would advise you to use. Ignoring her back as she is ignoring you will only make matters worse. I would advise that you fix this issue so that you don’t lose her completely.


When a girl tries such a thing and you and you respond negatively to it, then she will probably know that you too never had feelings for her.



This is what to do if she keeps ignoring you;


·         Ask her what is wrong; this is the first measure I would recommend you to use if she keeps ignoring you. This is the only way to fix that problem. Communication will help you to get everything she has on her chest.



She might not be willing to talk to you but with this method that I’ll share with you, I’m sure she will talk. So, this is what you should do make her talk to you even if she is ignoring you.



You can start by sharing with her what you feel about her. Tell her how bad you feel about the situation she keeps you in. Talk what you feel about her—make it hearty. She will eventually talk to you if she really did feel a thing for you.



When she talks now, this is the only chance you have to make things better between the two of you. Let her tell you what made her pull away from you and start ignoring you. Find what went wrong and fix things gradually.



I can’t promise you that everything will work overnight for that. You have to be patient enough if you really want her to pay attention to you again.


·         Find the mistakes that you did in the near past so that you make it up to her; as I said earlier, a girl might ignore you because of something you did last weekend. When you upset a girl who is not much of an extrovert she will just keep silent about that.


The only thing that will let you know that she is upset is her actions. It can be a hard thing to date an introvert. It will always be up to you to figure out where you went wrong and come clean before her.


If you wait for her to make a move of telling you why she is ignoring, then dude you will forever keep waiting.



So when you have realized you have messed up, apologies to her. You don’t have to kneel down before her or cry on her lap to prove that you are sorry. Come up with romantic ways of saying how sorry you are.


You can do that by taking her to dinner, buy her simple gifts that will elevate her moods, plan a dinner with her—be the chef that day, help her out on some of the issues that she finds irritating, do all you can to make her comfortable and happy.



This will be the only way to make her take things back to normal. She will stop ignoring, just keep making up to her.


·         Give her space; sometimes all it needs is a space to fix everything. Giving her space might give her helpful insight into how important that relationship is to her. It takes a lonely soul to figure out what it misses.



Space might also, make her rethink her priorities in her relationship. After some days she will realize that she did something wrong. She will come back to apologize if she really did love you.



You have to understand you can’t accelerate the healing process of someone. The only thing you can do is to hope that everything will work out okay. Let time do its work. They say “Time heals everything”


·         Find a spot to motivate her to pay attention back to you; if she keeps ignoring you, don’t give up on her. You are a man. We are supposed to be romantic. That is why is wrote this article on why we should know relationship tips.



Do all you can to make sure she is back in your lane. You can do that by taking your time with her, involve yourself with her in activities that make her happy, do everything that amazes her.



You can even decide to take her for a trip. Expose her to new environments and conditions that will make her forget the negative feelings she had for you. With little spice of love, romantic creative dating ideas her attention will be back to you.



To conclude, these are just a few of the reasons why she is ignoring you. Lucky enough with the ways of how to fix that I have shared with you, you will eventually get her attention back.



 However, if she completely keeps on ignoring you no matter how hard you to try to get her to pay attention to you, it’s not worth it to hurt yourself for that.

There is no point of hanging on to something that will eventually break you down. You deserve better dude!



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